Saturday, December 26, 2009
tomorrow....
Well Baby bears, birthmom Goldilocks will be here tomorrow. I am so excited to see her, I always am. Just incase you are new here and dont know, we are very close, not only because of the adoption we are just connected, in so many ways, we say we are each others soul mates - soul sisters! At first I thought it was because we share the same daughter and well yeah Im sure that is a big part of it, but it is more. We are a lot alike and just well are very close in many ways, even with out baby bear in the picture if I would have met her we would have been very close. I think this is why I see so much of myself in baby bear, truely I see me so much in her it scares me sometimes- its almost like she has my genetic makeup, she has characteristics from me that I have had all my life! like for example I cant stand to have an unopened present around me, it does something to me, I do not know if it is a curiousity thing or a mental disorder, but I have been known to unwrap a present and then re-wrap and put back under the tree! so now everyone just keeps them away from me, well baby bear is the same way, and I know most kids are but for her it goes beyond normal, just like me, it is a compulsion! and last night we had company over and someone said, man she litereally can not stand an unopen present around her! and I thought yep thats my girl and then I thought about Goldilocks and how much we are all alike. Anyway I am so lucky to have her in my life and to have answers to questions about baby bear so I can only imagine how imortant and crucial it is and will be for baby bear! then the coin flips and I have my baby boy, that we have pretty much no info or contact and not sure if we ever will. But we will deal and do our best, for now, for today, I am excited we get to spend the week with someone thats important to us, to me, to my daughter, someone we call family someone we love very much, my daughters other mom!
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5 comments:
That's incredibly sweet. Your kids and furbabies are absolutely precious! Thanks for stopping by my blog...I love connecting with other military wives who have come by their families in unusual ways. :)
Oh what a beautiful family you have! I think it is so interesting that you have two such different adoption situations with your two children and you must have learned so much through that. Thanks for stopping by my blog and best of luck in the new year!
~ICLW~
It's wonderful that you have such a great relationship with your daughter's birth mom. It seems like that would have really great effects for all concerned throughout your lives. Your kids are lucky to have a mom that wants to build relationships like that for them.
That's awesome that you can have that type of relationship with her!
Your children are absolutely beautiful!!
ICLW
We have a fantastic relationship with our son's birthmom too and actually her whole family, and always say the same thing, that if we'd met them some other way we would all be close anyway! We all have so much in common and I know that's going to be so wonderful for our baby to see as he gets older, and I'm sure it's true for your little one too!
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