I guess I just kinda feel like ranting a little more this week! One of the topics lately that has stuck in my mind is a birth/firstmom that her son's aparents told her or actually the amom told her that she could not bond with her little boy because he looked so much like her!! Oh my Lord! I think this just sunk in with me so much because when I got baby bear's hair cut this week I looked at her and there was godlielocks!!!!! A minnie version of godlielocks sitting there grinning at me and you know what -- it made me happy to know who she looks like! I can not imagine being soooo selfish as to let that prevent me from bonding with my daughter! Not to mention how that made the birth/first mom feel -- have these people been educated in good ole' fashion manners? Not to mention ethics, morals and common sense! This lady needs to get over herself and search deep within to figure out the REAL reason she may not be bonding with her son.
o.k. I'll hush!
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Yeah wasn't that the craziest??? And to think that perhaps we don't deeply bond with people that aren't blood related to us on an everyday basis. Of course we do! Grrrr. That got on my nerves reading that.
I am so glad that you are not like that Mama bear.. I cannot imagine you ever saying that to me or ever being like that towards me..
What is wrong with these people telling her not to bond.. She probably bonded with that child to some extend ever since she was pregnant.. Some people are so heartless in the things they say.
That's just very hurtful to even imagine..
That is an emotion known as LOVE. You LOVE baby bear, and you LOVE Goldielocks, so it's not so hard for you.
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