My mom is cool in her own little ways!!! Really she has come around so much about my relationship with Goldilocks. She does not come out and really say much but it is how she acts.
Not once did she mention anything about the kidnapping in Mississippi by the biological mother, ofcourse now we know the facts - but, before we just knew an adopted baby was kidnapped by bmom. Also she will mention in casual conversation that baby bear in her words is the "spitting image of Goldilocks". I think it is cool. So many people find comfort in the fact that Baby bear looks like our family an they tell us all the time -- I guess to "reassure of that she is ours" - God love 'em - they try! And the way my mom loves and adores her with this passionate type love, she says Baby Bear is her whole heart! My mom has 4 children, 5 grandchildren and 2 greatgrands, but she has this special realtionship with babybear, she connects with her so well. I can kinda feel her ease with everything, and it makes me happy!
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that's good to hear,mama bear! Your mom is kind of like my mom. They have to get use to the idea or have to soak it all in before they decide that its okay.. that may sound funny, but that seems to be the way my mom reacts to many different things. my mom will not even mention the kidnapping. if I hadn't bought it up, she never would have mentioned it. LOL.. Anyhow, I am glad to hear how your mom has come around more.. I knew she would... How can anyone not adore baby bear!!!!
Great picture, and I'm glad to hear that your mom is coming to terms. I'm getting nervous about my family...BabyGirl's b-day party is later in August, and M. is coming down for the party to meet my fam. I've spoken to all of them and I know they'll be kind to her, but I hope for even more than that...
Anyway, I love your post.
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